There's lots of sizzlin'
fireworks in the life of our July Spotlight Member:
Melissa Clark Vickers 
I’m a lactation
consultant, writer, and data collector by profession, and a musician at heart.
My love of music is at least partly genetic. My dad’s mom was a piano major at
Brenau College in Atlanta, GA, around the turn of the 20th century.
She was being groomed to be a concert pianist, but somewhere along the way she
fell in love with a Georgia farm boy, got married and had seven children, 6
boys (my dad was the youngest of the boys), and a baby sister. The older Clark
boys were well known for their singing, although the singing talent skipped
over my dad! Many of my first cousins–and now their children–are talented
musicians as well.
My first formal
study of music began in Chattanooga when I was 6 years old. My older sister,
Merrilyn, was taking piano lessons and I had a serious crush on Mr. Lowe. He
was tall (at least to a first grader!), dark, and handsome. I was thrilled to
start piano lessons. By the time I was 8, we’d moved to Connecticut, and
Merrilyn was now taking lessons from a very strict, overly serious woman. This
was not for me. The Cheshire school system started band in the fourth grade, so
I just decided to wait a year and get in the band. Sitting still to play the
piano was always a challenge for me anyway, and I figured with the flute I
could wander around. I couldn’t wait to march! That enthusiasm waned seriously
after my first parade in 7th grade and the band marched behind
horses....
I started
private flute lessons in the fifth grade with Mr. Crumrine, an older man with
white hair and the biggest lips I’d ever seen. He was an excellent flute player
and teacher, and I learned a lot from him, and I was a very good flute player
all through high school.
Meanwhile, in
the summer after fifth grade, Merrilyn and I decided we wanted to learn to play
the guitar, so my parents bought us a 3/4 size acoustic guitar and a few books
and we spent the summer teaching ourselves to play. I’m a dyed-in-the-wool 60s
folk freak, so I learned folk picking styles and sang in church and for fun. I
wrote a few songs in high school as well, most of which were highly
forgettable.
When I headed
to the University of Georgia after high school, I had had enough of the flute
so I opted not to pursue that any further. Instead I joined the UGA Wesley
Singers and played my 12-string guitar and sang with a fun bunch of college
students. I met my future husband at UGA as well, and after we finished
school, Bob and I married and moved to Atlanta. My flute stayed in its case for
decades.
Fast forward
to kids! We moved from Atlanta to Huntingdon in 1994, where my son, Dan (now
23), took up the clarinet in 6th grade. He was an excellent player,
making it on his own into All West in 8th and 9th grades
before finally starting lessons with Leigh Boyce in Trenton. He played all
through high school, continuing to do well in honor bands.
When I heard
about the JACB in the summer of 2003, I decided I wanted to play with a group
again. I convinced Merrilee to join me, and I bought my first “step-up” flute to
replace my aging original one. She and I played with the band her last two years
of high school, and she was given the JACB scholarship (thank you!). I’m
carrying on and having a grand time. It is something I do for ME, and I’m quite
happy to be playing 2nd parts! The 1st flute section has nothing to fear from me!
To all of you
music educators, I’d tip my hat to you if I wore one! Music is so important and
is often undervalued in schools in favor of more “important” classes. I’ve seen
what music can do for kids who don’t excel in sports or grades or who just need
a group to belong to. Music teaches kids the value of working together for a
common goal, and at the same time gives them the opportunity to shine as
individuals. Music speaks to the soul, and can transform a lousy mood into a
much more hopeful and upbeat one. The world needs more music.
I’d like to
think my grandmother is quite pleased with her musical legacy that has worked
its way into three generations. I, too, would be pleased if this legacy
continues in my family for generations to come.